You want straight talk from a psychologist, not psychobabble. You don't want a passive therapist who just listens. Nor do you want a know-it-all to tell you exactly what to do. You want a competent psychologist who gives real feedback about what he sees going on. You want someone with real life experience. Before becoming a psychologist Dr. Evans had experience serving in the Peace Corps, running a business, getting married and having children.